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Monday 14 June 2010

The bad boy tactics

The attraction is rooted in the female
DNA. Women are subconsciously seeking a man who makes
them
feel secure, who has the ability to protect her
and their offspring.


In this day and age, one doesn't need the physical
strength to slay dinosaurs or fend off barbarian hordes.

Bad Boys don't need to have money, either. It's their
emotional strength that women are drawn towards. They play
by their own rules and have unstoppable
self-confidence,
which means they've possess survival tools that the
sensitive "metrosexuals" lack.
Another element of the attraction is that women want
what they can't have.

Meanwhile, Nice Guys bend over backwards to avoid drama;
Bad Boys
give women all the drama they can handle.

For women, the e
motional rollercoaster of dating a
Bad Boy--who's always got other hotties on speed-dial,
and is constantly challenging her to hold his
interest--becomes addicting.
First, stop making yourself constantly available to
women.
you can send themessage that you live a rich, busy Alpha Male lifestyle by simply taking a different tact when women want to make plans with you.
Let's say you exchanged phone numbers with a hottie
the other day. She calls you up and says, "Me and
my friends are going out tonight to the bar, do
you want to come meet up?"

WACK RESPONSE: "Definitely! I can be there in an hour."

MACK RESPONSE: "Well, I have some appointments tonight...
but if I can get freed up a bit later, I'll try to
stop by and make an appearance."

There's a major difference in how a woman will
perceive these two types of responses: you're
either the typical, eager-to-please dude with
nothing else going on his life, or you're the
Mack who fits women into his schedule, and only
sees women at his convenience.

(What are your "other appointments?" You keep this
vague on purpose. Women will usually assume you're
spending time with other women, and this is a GOOD
thing...)

Next, it's critical that you are a
decision maker
instead of always putting the ball in her court.
I'll tell you a secret about women: they hate to
make decisions. This has to do with how they're
wired.

Men are wired to operate according to logic, and
to solve problems so that they avoid uneccessary
bullshit and drama; women are ruled by their
emotions, which are constantly shifting and can
erupt into drama for no apparent reason.

(Women subconsciously seek to create drama, especially
when they're in relationships, as it serves to make
their partner reassure them and confirm that he's
there to support her.)

A woman can experience turbulent emotions over
something as simple as making plans for next
Saturday night, or figuring out which dress to buy.

As a man, you've got to be the emotional rock who
makes
the decisions
and puts her emotions in check.

By always making the necessary decisions and laying
out the gameplan, she will be compelled to follow your
lead. This, in turn, makes her feel secure with you.

Let's look at another example. You call a girl
to plan a date...
WACK APPROACH: "So I was thinking, maybe if you're free
sometime, we could do something..."

MACK APPROACH: "You said you don't work on Friday night,
and there's this awesome new café with great music that
I want to show you. I'm going there Friday around nine
o'clock, I can pick you up and we can go together."

Most importantly,
stop broadcasting your interest.

Never make it obvious that you're into a girl; the Bad
Boy always
keeps women guessing. This means no more
complimenting women on their beauty, confessing your
attraction, or being available anytime she wants to see
you or chat on the phone.

Maintain an element of mystery and never act easily
impressed.
This attitude is manifested in the way you converse
with women:
playfully teasing women and throwing out little
"challenges" to see if she meets your high standards,
rather than taking the typical approach--which is to
talk about yourself and try to impress her.



There's a scene in The Empire Strikes Back that says
it all.
Han Solo (played by Harrison Ford) is about to be
dragged off to the deep-freeze chamber. Princess Leia
only has a couple of seconds to say goodbye.

The sexual tension and attraction has been building up
between them. They share a passionate kiss, and she
blurts out, "I love you."

Han looks at her coolly and says, "I know."

That's a classic Bad Boy reply. It comes down to being
the prize
instead of the pursuer.


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