Ok to open with a compliment, as long as you do it in an interesting way. “what are you, a statue model?” “You are really…………….(look in eyes)……gorgeous”
Teasing shows lack of intimidation and sense of humour.
Don’t answer questions directly.
“What do you do?” Whatever you say, don’t say it twice.
-I work in the slave trade business. Import/export etc.
-Ass model
-Can’t you come up with a more original question than that?
-I can't tell you. I have to show you.
End conversation TOO early, turn around and ask for email, and have her write down number at the same time.
They’re gonna ask me to leave soon…yeah…the other guys are complaining that with me around they don’t stand a chance
Physical approach: Walk past glass, then walk backwards to get another look…look them all in the eyes, then walk on..then walk back!! Doesn’t really work for terrasses, just if there’s glass. Exaggerates the double-take! Cute and interesting
“Let’s get together”. NOT “Let me buy you dinner” etc., don’t allow a pretense
Hey, I don’t have long to talk [time constraint], but I wanted to get in touch and say hi. Let’s get together etc
“If nothing else, you sound like you’d make a nice friend”
How do you create an obsession is to have something work sometimes, and unpredictably.
Have UNBORING body language. Be animated, take up space
Know exactly what you have in mind before you ask her (shows decisiveness)
Always send mixed signals. Tell her you want to be friends, then kiss her. Spank her and tell her you did it because she’s such a good girl. Tell her what she just did was unacceptable, then kiss her. Respond differently to the same thing. NEVER BE PREDICTABLE!
Call her a cute nickname. “If you were Disney princess, which one would you be?” Then call her that.
Make it clear that you’re the selector, that she’s auditioning for you as much as you’re auditioning for her or more
Assume that you can do no wrong and just have a good time
Go light on women that are overly shy or have low self-esteem
Talk freely about men, women, sex, dating dynamics
Treat her like a friend but constantly tell her she’s messing up her chances with you
“I thought you had potential but you went and did THAT”
Interesting topics:
-Comedy
-Drama
-TV
-Movies
-Guess what’s going on with another couple
-When were the people around you last laid?
-and interesting trivia Etc
“You have beautiful glasses. Where’d you buy them, Home Depot?”
Says something sexual: (act all offended)“Oh, wait, is this the point where you like, give me your opinion? OH, that’s so cute, you have an opinion!”
NEVER ask her if you’re her type, what kind of guys she usually goes for, what she’s feeling for you, what she thinks of you, etc
Misinterpret what she says: “Go to bed? But I don’t even know you!” Bed, “it”, “in”, blow, etc. all leave room for intentional misinterpretation.
How many girls do you do this to? “Why? Do you wanna meet girls? Do you want me to teach you how?”
You look familiar…I know! You look like my FUTURE ex-girlfriend!
She’s so hot I’d follow behind her and finger bang her shadow
Don’t approach any woman/date with relationship expectations.
This puts false pressure on you, causes you to exaggerate positives, downplay negatives, etc.
Instead, go in with the attitude of “I’m here to have a good time, if something physical happens then great”.
No thinking about relationships until at least date 10.
No talking with women about relationships before at least 3 months.
Wait at least a day to call her, only see her once or twice a week.
Be a man, don’t be a friend.
Avoid dramatic talk and deep conversations whenever possible. Don’t get involved!
BE THE MAN always. It sure beats the alternative
-Put some distance between her and you. Start seeing her half as often or less
-Call her once for every time she sees you
-Get a life of your own and stop acting like her servant
-Start seeing other women-Start focusing on the bad behaviours that got you where you are now and think of how to avoid them in the future
If you do ANYTHING with enough authority, you can get away with it
