Using Insecurities To Touch A Woman

We ALL have weaknesses, vulnerabilities and insecurities. And most of the time, we try very hard to hide them but they don't realize how vulnerabilities can be used to ATTRACT women
as well! Revealing your insecurities is one of the BEST things you can do to stand out from other guys.

What's the big deal anyway? EVERY guy has them. Most men try to cover them up... but the more they try, the MORE insecure they appear to be. And women HATE this. It's like when a woman wears way too much makeup -- it's obvious she's trying to cover up something BAD.

Its not asking you to keep whining, complaining and talking about how your world fell apart when your dog diedor how "unfairly" you were treated by people around you all the time. That's just being NEGATIVE.

What I am saying however is to show her an occasional GLIMPSE into the frail and soft side of your character. This little "peek" into your softer side will draw her into your area of weakness and this will in turn HUMANIZE her view of you, lower her suspicion and EASE up her "guard" against you - paving a way for DEEPER attachment.

Normally strong and in control, at times you must know when to let go and give into your weaknesses and let her SEE it.

There is an old saying that if you want to get someone on your side, you must first get them to TRUST you or at least feel "superior" to you. People are bound to trust ANYTHING over which they believe they have CONTROL.

Example: Let's just say you are naturally a SHY guy - at certain times, give your "shyness" a little weight and lay on a little thick. BLOW it up a little if you have to. When you look at her, try slightly lowering your head and give a shy glance upward to her. Watch her reaction.

Peopl are always saying that women like men who are strong and confident. But that's not the WHOLE story. women find themselves drawn to men who know when to show their vulnerable and weak sides... AT THE RIGHT TIME.

This usually happens when you're both sharing stories about yourselves. It happens VERY INTIMATELY. When you know how to 'time' your moves correctly, your so-called "weakness" of being shy will draw her in and give you a certain "seductive" charm she'll find strikingly ALLURING.

Here's another fact: A woman for example, is usually attracted to a man's strength and confidence but too much of these mentioned qualities can cause FEAR and DISLIKE. Or worse still when the male is unfeeling and aloof.

When a female senses this in a guy, she may start feeling DOUBTFUL about his motives. If you want to be "smooth" and as NATURAL as you can bewith women, you have to learn how and when to show your emotions - to let SOME out and get her to SEE and FEEL your soft side.

The key is to indulge in your soft side while maintaining your masculinity at the same time but you'd want to keep things in MODERATION. A glimpse into your shy self for instance is enough as too much of it makes you look like a PATHETIC, sad freak.