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Friday 7 November 2008

Pick up girls in club

When you're in a bar/club setting and you're looking out for IOIs (Indicators of Interest) to know whether a girl is interested if she:

Moves closer to you during your conversation
Asks if you have a girlfriend
Waits for you if you go somewhere (ie: to the bar or bathroom)
Stays with you when her friends move away
Touches you during the conversation
Talks about your girlfriend without asking if you have one (hoping that you'll say that you don't have a girlfriend)

It means she's interested... to a certain extent. I have to say that some times when you're out in the field, try not to place too much emphasis on looking for her to showyou 'signs' that she's interested.

You might get it if you're super good looking but your goal isto attract her with your PERSONALITY, NOT LOOKS.
And chances are, if you're not good looking, most girls (espin a bar/club setting) won't even bother to notice.
As you're out approaching women, you have to CREATE opportunities, not WAIT for them to present themselves to you.

Remember the 3-second rule! If you like someone, JUST GO and not hesitate. Anything longer than 3 seconds and you'll probably talk yourself out of doing it.

And once you get the IOIs, I would say you have ESCALATE the chance. Start touching her more, not groping, just let your hands gradually touch her.

For instance if you're moving places in the bar, put your arm down on her waist or shoulder and guide her. Even better, just grab her hand and walk with her. Trust me, if she likes you, she WON'T pull away.

The minute I'm holding hands with a girl I know I'm "in". That's when I'll start busting on her like mad and escalate iteven more... look right into her eyes,

"I so want to kissyou right now"... then I pull away, grab her and bring her to another area within the club.
Bring her along to as many "places" as you can to get her COMFORTABLE with you.
And when she LEAST expects it, you come from behind and smell her neck.

That being said, in terms of IOIs, once you get more than 4 or 5 of them from a girl, your next step should be to hold her hand. And then you gradually move on, STEP BY STEP.

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