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Sunday 25 May 2008

Love and Space

It is mistake that people thought that if you love someone, you should show it by spending as much time with each other as possible.

This notion of love is a result of insecurity and lack of self-identity ,avoid submitting to such an immature notion

The reality is that EVERYONE needs space whether they know it or not. Everyone needs that time alone to "reset" and reorganize themselves
There is ABSOLUTELY nothing wrong with it; in fact it's perfectly natural.

Too many people take the "I need time alone" personally as a statement that reflects lack of care and love.

Make sure you don't commit that mistake. Make sure you treat your own desire for space and that of your partner with full understanding and respect.

After all, just like with your favourite food, you are much better off missing the company of your partner and wanting to have it again, rather than being fully "satiated" with it.

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