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Thursday 11 December 2008

Romantic tension faster than almost anything else

Romantic tension faster than almost anything else!

You are going out for the first time. Some people in such situations have the bad habit of asking out of the blue something like "So, do you do this often?"
And from there, the conversation goes into discussing prior dating experiences. BAD IDEA!
it has NOTHING to do with romance and romantic tension.

Arousal her feeling with you

EVERYTHING and it rings true in ALL aspects of your interactions with women. The more emotions she feels around you, the stronger an impression you'll make. The more interesting things she learns about you and tells you about herself, the more deeply she'll feel connected to you.

And the more places she visits and things she does and sees with you, the longer she'll feel she's known you. And the longer a woman who is attracted to you has known you, the more inclined she will be to acting on that attraction and go further with you into a deeper, more "romantic" relationships.

What you want is for your girl to come with you on a handful of different adventures, you want to keep stirring up emotions in her; happy, sad, annoyed, angry, irritated, fun, sensual, sexual, flirty, etc... it doesn't really matter.

So again, it's really more about MEMORIES you create in her and less about the TIME you know each other that sparks attraction in a woman. Sharing more experiences in a shorter amount of time makes a closer, DEEPER connection.

The premise of distorting a woman's senses to spark attraction is based on a psychological phenomenon known as Response Facilitation (RF).

This is the process of strengthening the dominant response in a particular situation. You are going to use it to strengthen her emotional responses and get her to REALLY like you and see you a little more than a friend. This is how it works.

Understand that emotions basically consist of two parts: a cognitive component (what you're thinking) and a physiological component (what you're feeling).

For example, if you're thrilled with someone, you're thinking all kinds of "exciting" thoughts about that person. You're also experiencing certain physiological sensations throughout your body that indicate that you're excited such as an increased heart rate, increased blood pressure, mild sweating, adrenaline surging throughout your veins, etc..

You'll have to think of ways to come up with situations where she is highly likely to experience increased levels of arousal, and to pair YOURSELF with that arousal. So, in a nutshell, you should be able to take a girl who likes you (someone who has mild physiological arousal when you're around) and make her REALLY like you, by adding "extra" arousal to the situation.

The extra arousal will add up with that that is already present so as to increase the intensity of her emotional response toward you. So how do you go about it doing it? You do it by simply doing enjoyable AND arousing things together by having fun AND amping up the teasing, flirting and sexual tension when you're together.

Most of these activities involve doing something FUN and extremely enjoyable that appeals to her five senses. FUN and arousal, if you don't already know, always leads to LOVE and PASSION.

For example... You can take her to an amusement park. The crazy rollercoasters, drenching waterslides, breath-taking ferri wheels will not only increase her heart rate but also her sense of arousal. It gives you both a chance to hug one another, to accidentally touch, kiss, hold one another, and so on...

As you're both getting onboard the rollercoaster, you give her your hand, she grabs it, you hold on to it, you look deep into her eyes, if she doesn't let go, it means she likes it.

As you're flying up and down, if she's comfortable with you, she might hug on to you and you grab on tightly to her and bring her closer into you.

The smallest of things, the simplest of things works wonders, the activities you're doing together will give you unlimited opportunities , to get physical with her, unlike everyday shopping and boring talk will ever do.

It won't look like you're taking advantage or that you're trying to put a move and on her because it's as NATURAL as it can ever be!

Festivals are also good as these places provide a kind of speed and excitement that makes people feel more alive and elated. If you want to intensify her feelings, you should take her to these places so that she loses track of time passing. Take her to a place where there are constant ACTIVITY and MOVEMENT so she gets caught up in the atmosphere - embark on some kind of journey together, distract her mind with new sights, new people, new experiences.

The pace of your seduction and attraction effort must pick up at a certain moment to create a whirling effect in her mind. The point is for you to get creative in creating OPPORTUNITIES for yourself in order for her to to see a WHOLE NEW SIDE to you that she's NEVER seen and experienced before.

Avoid texting

Gets a girl's phone number and then a couple of days later, instead of calling her,texting her it's not the best move. Calling and hearing a voice is so much more powerful, so much more compelling and makes such a stronger impression.

Text messages have their purpose - they are great when you are somewhere where you can't talk but you need to contact someone. However, when it comes to talking to a woman for the first time after you met her, texting should definitely be avoided.

You see, there are two kinds of males out there from a woman's perspective - the men and the "boys." If you are interested in being attractive to women, you should strongly consider being a "man." A man keeps his communication with a woman at a higher level and keeps the "high school" means of communication such as myspace, IM, and texting to the minimum, if at all. This automatically distinguishes him from many other guys and makes him stand out as a more mature and thus - a more attractive man.

Fixing her hair

There is very powerful way to show your attractive confidence

when you are out with a woman on a first date -So, you sit down at a table, having coffee or anything else you like to drink, you talk, you laugh, and things are going well.

Then, at a certain point in a conversation when you see that she feels comfortable talking to you and interested in what you have to say (perhaps 30-60 minutes after you met), you look her in the eye, as you talk, and you slowly, carefully but with a touch of affection fix her hair at the front of her head/face.

The key to a successful execution of this move is in NOT making a big deal out of it and not drawing any attention to it. In other words, imagine changing your sitting position as you talk. Would you ever discuss the factthat you changed the way you sit on a chair? Of course not.

Well, the same applies to fixing her hair with your finger. This will show that it was absolutely natural for you to do it, it wasn'ta big deal, you are completely comfortable with doing it and you didn't hesitate even for one moment to do it. Casual, innocent but caring touchingis part of your nature and you feel comfortable with it. All of the abovewill indicate to a woman a lot of confidence in you.