First Kiss and after...

It's true that most guys have massive questions in their minds around this issue of when/how to kiss her the first time. 

Some guys overdo it, which leaves a bad - er - taste in the 
mouth. 

And some guys don't go far enough: planting a nice 
gentle peck on the cheek when she's DYING for you to really 
kiss her! 

So, how can you be both sensitive and bold? How can you 
avoid these terrible labels: "tongue-slammer", "meek", 
"weak", and/or "sloppy"? 

First, WHEN is the right time? 
 1) I always tell guys that they usually can sense when it 
is the right time, but they have to learn to trust their 
instincts on it. 
 2) Here's a test - comment on her fragrance, and lean-in 
to her neck for a light sniff. Does she flinch when you 
get close? If so, she's not ready yet at all. 
 3) If you're still in doubt, allow the conversation to 
pause and just smile at her. Does she hold your gaze 
and smile back? If so, she is definitely ready. 
 4) What you want to do next is to subtly tilt your head 
towards hers. Then, subtly tilt it to the side. 
She should be mirroring you at this point. 

Slowly, your faces will reach each other, and your lips 
will touch.

You are now kissing. 
 This is NOT when you open your mouth and go for the full 
tongue-job. PLEASE guys - NEVER do that. 

Kissing is an art: LESS is more.  
 5) Now, when your lips touch for the first time - pull 
away a bit afterwards, and savor it. Be sure to ENJOY 
the fact that you are kissing this beautiful woman. 
 6) Next, kiss her again, but this time hold your lips 
together for a bit longer, allowing for MORE of the 
lips to touch. 
 7) Bring your left hand up and gently stroke her cheek 
while you gently/lightly kiss her. 
 8) At some point, it is fine to French kiss her, but 
do not overdo this. All you are doing here is gently 
touching/caressing her tongue with yours. Do not fill 
her mouth with your tongue...very very tacky. 
 9) If things become very passionate, definitely do the 
following: 

- Move your left hand to the back of her neck, and 
gently grasp with your fisted hand the hair at the 
nape of her neck. 
 - Gently pull it down, and not too far - just so it 
feels like there is the slightest pull from the scalp. 
 - This feels incredibly good, while also bringing your 
faces even closer together. 
 10) A nice touch is to subtly savor her lower lip by 
either nibbling it, or caressing it with your tongue. 
If you ever find that you're doing that, guess what... 
she LIKES you.

If this is a first kiss, end it after a minute. 
Don't let it turn into a long, drawn out make-out... 
particularly if it's in public. That's classless.

Your goal is to leave her wanting MORE. Be sure to be 
the one to end it by pulling away first, OK?