A fun thing you can do with a woman you just met, believe it or not, is to take her to run errands. It’s something that is non-threatening, and that almost any woman will go do with you. As long as you have some rapport, a woman will go food shopping with you. Simply say: “You know what? I’m going to pop down to the supermarket and get some supplies. Come with me -- it’ll be a little adventure for us.”
Then, when you get to the supermarket, do fun stuff. Go to the magazine rack, pick up a ridiculous magazine, and make fun of some celeb who was dumb enough to let a photographer get that close. Everything can be a fun, unpredictable adventure -- if you turn it into one.
No.9 - Convince Her That It Will Be Fun
We all want to feel something when it comes to the opposite sex. One feeling every woman wants is the feeling of fun. You can make anything fun by simply adjusting your attitude. Whatever you’re about to do, have the attitude of “let’s make this fun.”
Why do I use the word "fun?" Go on any online dating site and read a woman's profile; you’ll see that the one thing that women are looking for more than anything else is a “fun-loving man” . It’s a trait they’re all looking for. So make everything fun -- you have the power to make it happen.
No.8 - Leave Her Wanting More
One of the ways you can leave her wanting more is to end everything she’s enjoying on an up note. If she asks you to teach her something, teach her something great that she loves; then, when she asks you to teach her more, tell her -- “Next time.”
If you go somewhere really fun with her and she’s having a great time, right at the peak leave to go do something else, or tell her you have to go. When you’re talking to a woman on the phone for the first time, and the conversation is going great, that’s the time to let her know you have to run. This gets her asking herself why you didn’t ask her out, and if she’s going to get to talk to you again. And that’s a beautiful thing for her to be wondering about.
No.7 - Go Back To The Basics
On your path to mastery, you’re going to have setbacks. You’re going to be off your game, or you’ll screw up some other area of your life and that’s going to screw up this one. When this happens, go back to the basics, do not act out of desperation. And don’t start looking for some crazy technique to fix things.
Stick with the fundamentals, and you’ll ride out the storm. Don’t worry if you don’t understand this now. You will when you need to.
No.6 - Wait Until She Comes To You
If you’re in a relationship with a woman you really like, and the relationship starts deteriorating, and you get that feeling that it might end, what should you do? End it.
Sit down with her and say: “I’ve been thinking about our relationship lately. I think we both know it’s not heading where we want it to. I care about you a lot as a person. I like you; you’re someone I want to know for a long time, whether we have a relationship or not. But I think it’s best if we take some time off. Let’s end this now, let’s see what happens in the future.”
Step back and wait until she comes back to you. Why? If she doesn’t come back to you, then it's likely she would have ended it with you anyway, and that would have messed with your head. In this case, by ending it yourself you have more control and you make it far more likely that it’ll work out in the future. It’s like pulling the “emotional drug needle” out of your arm: It hurts at first because you’re addicted to it, but it’s what you need to do for yourself before bad things happen.
No.5 - Have Three Female Friends That Are Like The Women You Want To Meet
I’ve said before that it’s important to become the kind of guy women like to be around. So here’s a homework assignment: Get three female friends that are like the woman you’d like to meet. Don’t try to date them, just make them your friends.
Birds of a feather flock together, which for you means that your new friends will soon introduce you to their attractive, fun-loving female friends -- no pickup lines required.
No.4 - When You Find Something She Really Likes, Tease Her
There will always be a few things that she really, really likes. It could be a certain kind of food, a certain way you touch her, a certain experience. When you find something she really likes, stop, pull back and make her really want it before youtease her with a little more. This can be the source of her greatest pleasure in the entire relationship.
No.3 - Make The Conversation Interesting
Make the conversation an adventure. Learn to tell a great story and find topics that are naturally interesting to talk about. How do you get a better knack for this? It’s simple: Set yourself up in a place where you can hear the conversations women have. Listen to them talking to each other, see if you can notice the commonalities. But there’s a danger here: You don’t want to start acting like a woman’s “girl friend.”
Yes, many women like to have gay friends, but that’s not what she really wants -- and it’s not what you want to become. But do listen to conversations to get clues on how you can spice up your chats with women.
No.2 - Become A Renaissance Man
The renaissance was a period in history where many different things intersected: art, music, science, philosophy, maths, and more. Cultivate all the different areas of your life: artistic, physical, relationships with different kinds of people, music, etc. Keep adding skills in different areas that you enjoy, and women will be magnetically attracted to you.
No.1 - Keep Developing Yourself
The most important thing you can do to become a more interesting man -- the kind of man women love to have in their lives -- is to invest in developing yourself. Read books, attend workshops, whatever it takes; get to know yourself, and develop all the different aspects of your life. If you do this, day in and day out, you’ll soon wake up and realise that you’ve become a more interesting person all the way around. You’ll realise you have way more women in your life than you ever had before. Do whatever it takes to make this investment in yourself -- it’ll pay off in spades.
