If you were to eavesdrop on most guys in the bar, trying to hit on girls, you'd think you were listening to a friggin' job interview...
"So what's your name?"
"Where are you from?"
"What do you do for a living?"
"Do you come here often?" And so on...
Not that there's anything TERRIBLE about askingthese questions, but you're NEVER going to hit home runswith women unless you know how to take the conversation to a DEEPER level and build a strong CONNECTION.
think of it as a "force field" which she uses to repel 90% of the guyswho approach her, then "boom" -- you've now got her engaged in a great conversation, and from there, you can take it anywhere you want to. You've got to create a BOND between you and her, and lay the proper groundwork, so that when it's time to close the deal --whether that means exchanging phone numbers, bouncing with herto the next bar, or bringing her back to your place -- her answer is an automatic "YES" instead of her coming up withan excuse to say "NO."
Originality is INCREDIBLY important. "Be Original." This Commandment applies to A LOT of areas -- from having an original fashion sense, to how you control the flow of the conversation and reply to her questions, to where you bring girls on dates.
when it comes to having an original fashion sense, Dressing "original" can be as simple as getting a stylish new haircut, buying a cool, custom-fitted sport coat, ahip pair of jeans and sneakers, and a few inexpensiveaccessories: a necklace and a ring with cool designs.
Now, when it comes to meeting women and conversing with women, This means no more lame, "job interview" conversations. It means you'll use Creative Questions to get her to openup about herself, and share information that she NEVER told the last 37 dudes who approached her. It means you'll "plant seeds" in her mind about what aninteresting, attractive, original guy you are -- without EVER having to brag. It means when it's time to "close the deal," she'll be happy to go down that path with you...instead of shooting you down, or thinking of you as "just a friend."
