Find ANYTHING, her purse, shoes, glasses, what she's doing, how she's doing it, where she's going and make a smart or wise ass comment about it sure to make her LAUGH.
The intention of your playful teasing is not to tease; keep in mind your intention is to ATTRACT her and nothing else.
Tease her when you have a funny or naughty little comment that comes to mind and DON'T hold back.
It seems men with only the intention to have fun and don't really care much what she thinks of him happen to get the best results.
Don't hold back when you have a funny comment, and don't worry what she'll think.
Not to be too worried about what she'll think or if you'll ruin your chances, just have fun.
Women are NOT attracted to men who are all submissive, accomodating and give in to their every demands. They are not attracted to guys who are insecure with themselves & men who are easily INTIMIDATED by women.
you're indirectly 'telling' her that you'retotally COMFORTABLE being yourself, that SHE'LL have to do more than just 'look good' to impress you, and that SHE'S the one who has to work hard for YOUR ATTENTION.
Playfully teasing women & making them laugh is the most direct route to creating attraction with women.
Tuesday 19 February 2008
Monday 18 February 2008
Every man should know
NOT kiss ass or do things for them like everyone else.
Be Different.
Expect them to pull their own weight, call them on all of their issues and messed up behaviors just like you would a guy friend or family member (use the same "you're my friend and I'm saying this for your benefit" tone that you'd use with a friend)
Tease and make fun of their insecurities, reframe other men who kiss their ass, and put beauty in a new light
Be Different.
Expect them to pull their own weight, call them on all of their issues and messed up behaviors just like you would a guy friend or family member (use the same "you're my friend and I'm saying this for your benefit" tone that you'd use with a friend)
Tease and make fun of their insecurities, reframe other men who kiss their ass, and put beauty in a new light
Saturday 16 February 2008
Bridges
1.Approch
The key is confidence and poise
Do something NORMAL
2.Getting Digits
The key is to be interesting and funny
COCKY and FUNNY
Make interesting conversation with women
3.Date Request
Keep up the cocky and funny
The Friendship Frame
4.Date
MUST be as clean as possible
Make a good impression
Stay very cool and calm when you first meet a woman - and act almost indifferent. This quality is attractive to women.
5.Holding Hand
it's a good idea to hold a woman's hand forawhile before kissing, this conveys to the woman that you are a warm,friendly person, and someone she can trust.
The interesting thing about hand holding is that men think that handholding means "She wants to have sex" and women think that it means "Oh,he's a nice guy."
An important one to learn is Palmistry, as it leads to you touching herhands!
When you're finished, you just keepholding her hand. It works so perfectly.
6.KISSING
If I've been talking to a girl, and I want to know if she's ready to bekissed, I'll reach over and touch her hair while we're talking and make acomment about it. I'll say "Your hair looks so soft" and just touch the tips of it.
If she smiles and appears to like what she's hearing, I then reach backover and start stroking it again while talking to her. If she likes this, I knowthat she would be receptive to a kiss.
7.Being Alone with Her
This Bridge is all about trust
If she trusts you, and feels safe, she'll be OK with the idea of beingalone with you.
It's important to NOT seem too eager for anything.
DON'T seem too anxious
So be trustworthy
8.Making Out
Men are on/off switches, and women are volume knobs. So work on thisone slowly and with patience.
The first thing to do is NOTHING
Take 10 or 15 minutes and sit back and be only interested in talking. As a matter of fact, sit faraway from her, or LEAN BACK if you're next to her. This sends the message that you're not just horning in for the kill.
Next, when you've both shared a nice laugh together, and the energy is good reach back over and give her a kiss.
This time, WHISPER in her ear that she smells really good. Then start to SMELL her neck and shoulders
Women LOVE tobe smelled, and it instantly turns them on
The things that trigger it:
1. Pulling her hair gently (run your hand up the back of her neck intoher hair, then make a fist and pull lightly).
2. Biting her neck gently (no Dracula here, just lightly).
3. Breathing in her ear and whispering.
4. Kissing her neck.
If you take some time smelling her, she will start to get turned on. Thenit's time to try one of the above to take her to the next level! This is whenyou can start gently rubbing her breasts, etc. and go with some heavy petting.
9.Clothes Off
Compliments also WORK well at this point. Since most women are self conscious about their bodies, a simple "I think you have such a sexy body"will work wonders. Women often NEED to know that you find them attractive.
Now you can start taking off the clothes... first shirt, then bra, thenpants... etc. Go SLOWLY, and if she stops you, just take that as a signal that you need to KEEP UP the SMELLING, neck kissing, ear breathing, etc.
NEVER keep going if a woman says "Stop." But stop doesn't usuallymean "Stop and go away," it usually means "Stop, I need you to turn me onsome more."
Keep talking sexy to her, KISSING, etc. Then try again. The MORE turned on she gets, the more the clothes come off.
10.SEX
The most important part of the Bridge to sex is being prepared!
Be ready! Buy condoms, make sure your house is neat and bed ismade...
If you START, then STOP, then START, then STOP... she'll get REALLY turned on. So do that!
Women love a challenge,and if you can be a challenge in this area, then you're the man!
So KISS her BODY for awhile, then stop. Then KISS her NECK. Then stop.Then BREATHE in her ear... then stop. You get it. If you're patient, she'll eventually do something blatant that says "OK, enough! I'm ready!"
The key is confidence and poise
Do something NORMAL
2.Getting Digits
The key is to be interesting and funny
COCKY and FUNNY
Make interesting conversation with women
3.Date Request
Keep up the cocky and funny
The Friendship Frame
4.Date
MUST be as clean as possible
Make a good impression
Stay very cool and calm when you first meet a woman - and act almost indifferent. This quality is attractive to women.
5.Holding Hand
it's a good idea to hold a woman's hand forawhile before kissing, this conveys to the woman that you are a warm,friendly person, and someone she can trust.
The interesting thing about hand holding is that men think that handholding means "She wants to have sex" and women think that it means "Oh,he's a nice guy."
An important one to learn is Palmistry, as it leads to you touching herhands!
When you're finished, you just keepholding her hand. It works so perfectly.
6.KISSING
If I've been talking to a girl, and I want to know if she's ready to bekissed, I'll reach over and touch her hair while we're talking and make acomment about it. I'll say "Your hair looks so soft" and just touch the tips of it.
If she smiles and appears to like what she's hearing, I then reach backover and start stroking it again while talking to her. If she likes this, I knowthat she would be receptive to a kiss.
7.Being Alone with Her
This Bridge is all about trust
If she trusts you, and feels safe, she'll be OK with the idea of beingalone with you.
It's important to NOT seem too eager for anything.
DON'T seem too anxious
So be trustworthy
8.Making Out
Men are on/off switches, and women are volume knobs. So work on thisone slowly and with patience.
The first thing to do is NOTHING
Take 10 or 15 minutes and sit back and be only interested in talking. As a matter of fact, sit faraway from her, or LEAN BACK if you're next to her. This sends the message that you're not just horning in for the kill.
Next, when you've both shared a nice laugh together, and the energy is good reach back over and give her a kiss.
This time, WHISPER in her ear that she smells really good. Then start to SMELL her neck and shoulders
Women LOVE tobe smelled, and it instantly turns them on
The things that trigger it:
1. Pulling her hair gently (run your hand up the back of her neck intoher hair, then make a fist and pull lightly).
2. Biting her neck gently (no Dracula here, just lightly).
3. Breathing in her ear and whispering.
4. Kissing her neck.
If you take some time smelling her, she will start to get turned on. Thenit's time to try one of the above to take her to the next level! This is whenyou can start gently rubbing her breasts, etc. and go with some heavy petting.
9.Clothes Off
Compliments also WORK well at this point. Since most women are self conscious about their bodies, a simple "I think you have such a sexy body"will work wonders. Women often NEED to know that you find them attractive.
Now you can start taking off the clothes... first shirt, then bra, thenpants... etc. Go SLOWLY, and if she stops you, just take that as a signal that you need to KEEP UP the SMELLING, neck kissing, ear breathing, etc.
NEVER keep going if a woman says "Stop." But stop doesn't usuallymean "Stop and go away," it usually means "Stop, I need you to turn me onsome more."
Keep talking sexy to her, KISSING, etc. Then try again. The MORE turned on she gets, the more the clothes come off.
10.SEX
The most important part of the Bridge to sex is being prepared!
Be ready! Buy condoms, make sure your house is neat and bed ismade...
If you START, then STOP, then START, then STOP... she'll get REALLY turned on. So do that!
Women love a challenge,and if you can be a challenge in this area, then you're the man!
So KISS her BODY for awhile, then stop. Then KISS her NECK. Then stop.Then BREATHE in her ear... then stop. You get it. If you're patient, she'll eventually do something blatant that says "OK, enough! I'm ready!"
10 critical moments
1. Approach (Walking over and saying hello)
2. Digits (Getting a phone number, email address, etc.)
3. Date request (This can actually be done when you first meet)
4. Date (The actual time with her)
5. Hold hands (The first sustained physical contact)
6. Kiss (The first 'intimate' contact)
7. Alone in private (Trust)
8. Make out (Sexually aroused)
9. Clothes off (Very sexually aroused)
10. Sex (Very very very sexually aroused!)
2. Digits (Getting a phone number, email address, etc.)
3. Date request (This can actually be done when you first meet)
4. Date (The actual time with her)
5. Hold hands (The first sustained physical contact)
6. Kiss (The first 'intimate' contact)
7. Alone in private (Trust)
8. Make out (Sexually aroused)
9. Clothes off (Very sexually aroused)
10. Sex (Very very very sexually aroused!)
Change Myself
Definite marjor purpose
be confident
attractive
success with women
Constant Improvment
CONSISTENTLY make an effort at approaching and interactingwith women, you will also have CONSISTENT improvement
Most of us use our imaginations to createhorrible ideas that prevent us from taking action. You might want to talk to that woman, but then imagine somepainfully scary but unrealistic ideas about getting rejected and walkaway instead.
Learn to get out of thehabit of making yourself feel bad and afraid, and into the habit ofmaking yourself feel good and optimistic.
be confident
attractive
success with women
Constant Improvment
CONSISTENTLY make an effort at approaching and interactingwith women, you will also have CONSISTENT improvement
Most of us use our imaginations to createhorrible ideas that prevent us from taking action. You might want to talk to that woman, but then imagine somepainfully scary but unrealistic ideas about getting rejected and walkaway instead.
Learn to get out of thehabit of making yourself feel bad and afraid, and into the habit ofmaking yourself feel good and optimistic.
Thursday 14 February 2008
What they want and what they really want?
Our subconscious may want DIFFERENT things than our conscious.
To understand the difference between what women (consciously) 'think' they want and what they (subconsciously) REALLY want is crucial to your success.
During the introduction stage, when she has no preference for you or anyone else, she mostly consciously ANALYZES your information. She may still answer you positively if your profile fits her image of a "good man" but if you do not give her what she really wants, she will eventually reject you: "I cannot give orders to my heart."
This means you cannot neglect a woman's emotions when trying to win her affection. Even though women think all they need is a good man, what they seek is a man who STIRS THEIR EMOTIONS.
Women are EMOTIONAL creatures. They need 'emotional food' in a relationship. This emotional food is called ROMANCE.
Excitement, ANTICIPATION, thrill, emotional ups and downs, these all are necessary requirements in the game of romance
As long as she FEELS SOMETHING, she is in. As soon as she becomes BORED, she is out. Make her DO SOMETHING for YOU, so she has to put in an effort.
Do not try to BUY her affection with gifts or compliments; this won't work. Make her occasional gift or compliment, to make her feel good about herself.
Only do it because you WANT to do it, not because you EXPECT something in return.
DON'T do sacrifices for her. When deciding on a gift, it does not have to be expensive, and it does not have to be useful; on the contrary, the most senseless romantic gestures work the best.
What women think they want and what they REALLY want are two DIFFERENT things. Women say they want security and stability, while in reality they want STRONGEMOTIONAL EXPERIENCES. They take the game of romance seriously.
To understand the difference between what women (consciously) 'think' they want and what they (subconsciously) REALLY want is crucial to your success.
During the introduction stage, when she has no preference for you or anyone else, she mostly consciously ANALYZES your information. She may still answer you positively if your profile fits her image of a "good man" but if you do not give her what she really wants, she will eventually reject you: "I cannot give orders to my heart."
This means you cannot neglect a woman's emotions when trying to win her affection. Even though women think all they need is a good man, what they seek is a man who STIRS THEIR EMOTIONS.
Women are EMOTIONAL creatures. They need 'emotional food' in a relationship. This emotional food is called ROMANCE.
Excitement, ANTICIPATION, thrill, emotional ups and downs, these all are necessary requirements in the game of romance
As long as she FEELS SOMETHING, she is in. As soon as she becomes BORED, she is out. Make her DO SOMETHING for YOU, so she has to put in an effort.
Do not try to BUY her affection with gifts or compliments; this won't work. Make her occasional gift or compliment, to make her feel good about herself.
Only do it because you WANT to do it, not because you EXPECT something in return.
DON'T do sacrifices for her. When deciding on a gift, it does not have to be expensive, and it does not have to be useful; on the contrary, the most senseless romantic gestures work the best.
What women think they want and what they REALLY want are two DIFFERENT things. Women say they want security and stability, while in reality they want STRONGEMOTIONAL EXPERIENCES. They take the game of romance seriously.
Thursday 7 February 2008
10 ways to act like a challenge
1) Don't Ask, Lead This one is VERY important. A lot of guys ask stupid things like "Would you like to go to this restaurant?", "Can I go to the bathroom", or even worse, "Can we do this again some other time?" And they wonder why they never get a second date! Listen, buddy. Confident men do NOT ask women for permission to do ANYTHING. They JUST do it. They don't ask for a kiss. They don't ask for a second date. They don't ask for ANYTHING. So next time you go out on a date... please... JUST LEAD THE WAY. Instead of asking "Can we...", just say "let's..." and lead her by the arm. But never, never, NEVER ask a woman ANYTHING. Remember, boys: If a woman doesn't like something, she will make sure you know.
2) Never Give a Direct "Yes". If a woman asks you for something, don't just give it to her like all the other pussy guys out there. Make her WORK for it. (Remember, psychology tells us that we appreciate the things we have to WORK for MUCH more than the "freebies".) For example...if she asks, "Can we go to Japanese?" Don't just say "yes." Say..."Maybe...", or you can even tease her and say, "I don't know, only good girls get treated to Japanese. Are you a nice girl?" Or if she asks, "Can we sit over there?", instead of just following her ass like most guys would, grow some spine and say, "No. I'd rather sit here. It's a much nicer view here." The key is to start getting you to act like a MAN.
3) Don't let her "interview" you. If you want a second date, then you better not let your woman "interview" you. Women love to interview men on a first date...so they can weed out all the losers. And guess what? That means if you screw up on just ONE question...you're a GONER. G-O-N-E-R. Goner. And this is EXACTLY why you shouldn't let her interview you in the first place. Whenever she asks things like "So what do you do" or "How much do you make?", just give her a silly answer...like..."Why, are you one of those superficial women? How much do YOU make?" Whatever she says, just TURN IT AROUND playfully.
4) Lift up Your Chest, Tuck Your Tummy In Want to project confidence physically? Do what Sergeant Marius says in the Dating Bootcamp, "Chest up, tummy in, boys." This will NATURALLY put you in a confident position. Ever seen a marine walk? That's how I want you to walk. Chest up, tummy in, soldier!
5) End The Date Early So the date has been going really well and there's a LOT of chemistry between you and your new love. End it now. I am serious. I want you to ALWAYS end the date early to keep the power in YOU. Make your date wonder why you have to go. Make her WANT to go out with you again. Most guys just drag a good date on and on until it becomes a bad date. Don't be the same. Be a man and have the power and self-control to end it early.
6) Don't Let Her Challenge You If you act like a wussy and back down whenever a woman challenges you, her attraction for you is going to drop faster than an apple dropping down from a tree. Most guys make the mistake of thinking they should never risk "offending" a woman by showing her their spines. WRONG. Never bow down to a woman you like. Don't suck up to her whenever she challenges you. Because if you do, she's going to lose respect for you as a potential boyfriend or lover. So next time a woman challenges you, have some spine and stand up for yourself. For example... If a woman tries to challenge you or to seduce you by staring into your eyes, stare back. Don't look away until SHE does. (The moment you look away and blush in shyness, she's going to lose respect for you as a man and find another man who's stronger.)
7) Don't Talk About A Second Date Never talk about a second date while you're still on the first date. Be a challenge - don't act like a eager beaver. Remember my golden rule: Take it one date at a time.
8) Don't Tell Her You Like Her Never, never, NEVER tell a woman you like her. Don't EVER try to "express your feelings for her". That is worse than ripping your own spine out and strangling yourself with it. I am not kidding. Once it's out in the open that you like her, half the game is over. SHE will have all the power, not you. Girls love trying to figure out if a guy likes them or not. It's part of the dating game. So don't take it away from them!
9) Let Her Think She's Not The Only One If she asks you if you're seeing anybody else, don't freak out and say, "No. Just you." Be a MAN and be a CHALLANGE. Say something like, "Well, I have a couple of possible prospects right now. We'll see who wins." Then flash her a smile.
10) Be In Control From The Beginning To The End This is extremely important. If you're taking a girl out, even casually, then you should be literally taking her out and giving her a good time. You shouldn't be seeking her permission every step of the way. You should be SWEEPING HER OFF HER FEET instead. She's in YOUR WORLD now - give her a good reason to stay there.
2) Never Give a Direct "Yes". If a woman asks you for something, don't just give it to her like all the other pussy guys out there. Make her WORK for it. (Remember, psychology tells us that we appreciate the things we have to WORK for MUCH more than the "freebies".) For example...if she asks, "Can we go to Japanese?" Don't just say "yes." Say..."Maybe...", or you can even tease her and say, "I don't know, only good girls get treated to Japanese. Are you a nice girl?" Or if she asks, "Can we sit over there?", instead of just following her ass like most guys would, grow some spine and say, "No. I'd rather sit here. It's a much nicer view here." The key is to start getting you to act like a MAN.
3) Don't let her "interview" you. If you want a second date, then you better not let your woman "interview" you. Women love to interview men on a first date...so they can weed out all the losers. And guess what? That means if you screw up on just ONE question...you're a GONER. G-O-N-E-R. Goner. And this is EXACTLY why you shouldn't let her interview you in the first place. Whenever she asks things like "So what do you do" or "How much do you make?", just give her a silly answer...like..."Why, are you one of those superficial women? How much do YOU make?" Whatever she says, just TURN IT AROUND playfully.
4) Lift up Your Chest, Tuck Your Tummy In Want to project confidence physically? Do what Sergeant Marius says in the Dating Bootcamp, "Chest up, tummy in, boys." This will NATURALLY put you in a confident position. Ever seen a marine walk? That's how I want you to walk. Chest up, tummy in, soldier!
5) End The Date Early So the date has been going really well and there's a LOT of chemistry between you and your new love. End it now. I am serious. I want you to ALWAYS end the date early to keep the power in YOU. Make your date wonder why you have to go. Make her WANT to go out with you again. Most guys just drag a good date on and on until it becomes a bad date. Don't be the same. Be a man and have the power and self-control to end it early.
6) Don't Let Her Challenge You If you act like a wussy and back down whenever a woman challenges you, her attraction for you is going to drop faster than an apple dropping down from a tree. Most guys make the mistake of thinking they should never risk "offending" a woman by showing her their spines. WRONG. Never bow down to a woman you like. Don't suck up to her whenever she challenges you. Because if you do, she's going to lose respect for you as a potential boyfriend or lover. So next time a woman challenges you, have some spine and stand up for yourself. For example... If a woman tries to challenge you or to seduce you by staring into your eyes, stare back. Don't look away until SHE does. (The moment you look away and blush in shyness, she's going to lose respect for you as a man and find another man who's stronger.)
7) Don't Talk About A Second Date Never talk about a second date while you're still on the first date. Be a challenge - don't act like a eager beaver. Remember my golden rule: Take it one date at a time.
8) Don't Tell Her You Like Her Never, never, NEVER tell a woman you like her. Don't EVER try to "express your feelings for her". That is worse than ripping your own spine out and strangling yourself with it. I am not kidding. Once it's out in the open that you like her, half the game is over. SHE will have all the power, not you. Girls love trying to figure out if a guy likes them or not. It's part of the dating game. So don't take it away from them!
9) Let Her Think She's Not The Only One If she asks you if you're seeing anybody else, don't freak out and say, "No. Just you." Be a MAN and be a CHALLANGE. Say something like, "Well, I have a couple of possible prospects right now. We'll see who wins." Then flash her a smile.
10) Be In Control From The Beginning To The End This is extremely important. If you're taking a girl out, even casually, then you should be literally taking her out and giving her a good time. You shouldn't be seeking her permission every step of the way. You should be SWEEPING HER OFF HER FEET instead. She's in YOUR WORLD now - give her a good reason to stay there.
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